Dementia is a case that bursts apart other than just thoughts. Left unbridled, the annoyance it creates can force a chunk into the bond of even the closest of kin.
“Imagine neglect about your husband, your children, or even your own personality. Imagine living in consistent sorrow because you’ve failed the most necessary things, like the use of tableware. Or that you’re in the midst of place on a shirt.”
These were the words that Dr. Rosa Carpio, founder of Noli Alzheimer’s and Elderly Care Center used to portray some threats challenged by those who experience dementia.
“And because dementia repeatedly works undiagnosed, the family gets frustrated at Lola. That’s because they’re not conscious that Lola doesn’t recognize what’s going on,” Dr. Carpio share.
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The restrained reactions of dementia caused the formation of “Paalala,” a mixed-media installation by artist Candice Alipio. Several hundred meters of thread were used to portray a grandmother and her grandchild bind. It’s a familiar perception, exclusively during the festivity.
Here, the magic lies in the element. The sculptures urge the crowd to pull it apart as if to mimic how dementia resolves a thought. Once all strands unraveled, a golden-red heart mysterious in the core will live. The information is clear–in the wave of dementia, thoughts made with the heart are the ones that persist.
Using yarn also keeps a significant meaning. Some people even tie a length of string around the hook as a sign of something important. For “Paalala,” the string from the artwork serves as a reminder to think of those who have hardship recalling.
More than anything, it’s a call to spend time and make crucial memories while Lolo or Lola can still make them. “At Noli, I have declined requests to take in residents are not yet in the severe stages of dementia,” recalls Dr. Carpio. “For as long as the patient can still make memories, I always tell the family to spend as much time together as they can!”
“Paalala” was commissioned by Alaska Milk Corporation to raise awareness about dementia and its effects.
“Alaska has been a part of Filipino homes for generations, most especially during the holidays,” said Harvey Ong, Marketing and Business Development Director of Alaska Milk Corporation.
“We need to raise the discussion now because this season is one of the most stressful for those with dementia. The lack of awareness can ruin the holidays not just for them but also for the Filipino family that we’ve grown with over the years. “Ong adds.
